Disambiguation only goes so far with things. With men and women it gets close to us all be 'human' but it remains our sex is a strong identifier, and one that binds us uniquely socially. I'm trying to see your point on "see, see, women can program too", but in reality I find you indicating I'm saying things I did not. All I did was mention what my daughter said to me and using natural, non-blaming identifiers to talk about it with her. You took it took it to a whole another level by making me say things in ways that was never my intent.

I'm going to be cool with the fact you did this with my comment, but you should really consider why you feel this way about it instead of doing a hack job with my comments. I support anyone doing anything they want and if you knew me, you'd know I'm someone who considers someone's worth by their actions, not by what they look, smell or taste like.

That also goes for people who don't quite understand how to state how they themselves feel about important matters.